' PAKU ' lesson ..

A story of a Paku lesson ..

Ingredient :
36 pakuS
1 blank paper

Whenever u feel the grundgies feeling , pinch 1 paku in the blank paper .. When the paku finishes .. then u might wanna do it vice versa .. Whenever u feel like to have the grundgies feeling,hold it, be patient and get over it .. do not let it out and settle it wid a calm heart .. Then if u manage to do so , kindly take 1 paku off the same sheet of paper.. Everytime you manage to control it,continue the same thing .. until every paku has been taken out ..

NOW , look at the sheet of paper .. What do you see? Its fills wid 36 holes on it .. It reflects the amount of time that u ve hurt ppl around you whenever u lose ur temper and had the grundgies feeling .. Could u mend it? NO .. Its awares us that whenever we wanna lose our temper .. take a deep breath and think of how many ppl around you that will get hurt jus becoz of your grundgies feeling ...

Something in life , some things we can mend it .. but not if you hurt his/her feelings .. Sometime we can prevent it from happening ..

* grungies feeling : feeling of angry,frustrated, intended to hurt someone in any way (feelings,or etc) ..

Simple exercise , GREAT lesson ..
This is a great lesson that ive learn from a great person .. =)
Hope that it will bring a light to you guys out there too after reading this ..

mY mEmOrAbLe ConVoCAtiOn ..

Its been 3 days after my convo .. Now only had the time to blog as ive been pretty busy lately wid my works and convo .. Thinking back on dat day it was really really a great journey all the way from the first day i step in to Upm .. On the convocation day itself .. i felt everything that ive put in, has paid up and really really worth it .. On that very special day .. my heart had a lot of 'undescribeable' feeling ..

1. Im so proud of myself that ive made it so far and finally graduated with a result that i m so proud of and its a miracle to me ..

*Nevertheless,when im up on the stage . i feel so proud that im the only Chinese that receive the scroll from Pro Canselor for my course which is ' Bahasa Linguistik Melayu '. That point of time i feel so proud of myself ..

So HAPPY and PROUD ..

2. I feel so thankful for my parent that has been there for me and supporting me all they through ups and downs .. Never give up on me ..

* On dat day, i felt that they were really really happy and very proud of me .. This is the very accomplishment that i feel so proud off .. Later in the evening sent them an sms in Mandarin writing ' BABA MAMA , Mei you ni men jiu mei you jin tian de wo ' .. Never forgets my brother too .. He has been a real great brother in my life and helping me through ..

This is my happy family ..

3. I feel so grateful and thankful for my boyfren .. He was there be4 the convocation starts .. to see me before i went in to the hall .. and he helps me handle all my frens call n guide them to UPM ..And he waits and teman by my bro from 1-4pm n went back to Upm to wait for me to be out of the hall .. He has been really supporting to me and help me thru the whole convocation .. He has been really understanding tat day.. Love you always ..

This is my lovely boyfren , Kenneth Lim ..

4. I feel that im so famous surrounding by all the SLR'S camera (Canon,Nikon .. ) .. haha .. I would like to thank Zheng Hao, my bro Jason , and Kuan Ming for taking nice and wonderful picture of me and my family ..

5. Appreciation is a word that i would use to all my frens who came on dat day including Penny,Chia Ying,Shang Hong,Kuan Ming, Chee Hoe, Zheng Hao,Gerard and Keng Yee .. Ur presence makes my convocation even more special .. Been able to spend this special moment wid u guys .. extremely remarkable ..

6.Nevertheless . warm wishes from my buddies and frens who is not able to make it to my convo .. i love you guys ..

Its really been a wonderful Convocation for me .. ItS the end of one important phase in my life and a starting point for a new phase .. I will miss UPM .. and all my frens there .. Definitely will hope one day if given the opportunities that i will visit my beloved Uni and continuing my Masters there ..

Here are some of the memorables photos that ive took ..

A kiss from Mum and Daddy..

A warm pic wid my bro, Jason ..

My High School Classmate (5K2)
From left : Penny , Me , Chia Ying and Shang Hong ..

A nice smile from Zheng Hao ..

My Form 6's mates .. Kuan Ming and Chee Hoe ..All da way from Cameron .. Mr Gerard Richard .. Bestest buddy , Keng Yee ..

My beloved coursemates .. =)

A ~Beautiful Surprise~..... that didnt work out ..

This is how it started .. Went to shopping wid my boyfren yesterday at One U .. its was a great time and great shopping spree session .. We were hunting for clothes and stuff while Kenneth wanted to buy clothes and shoes .. We were searching everywhere for nice shoes and we ended up in Timberland .. He saw a pair of shoe dat he like very much.He wanted a size 9 but unfortunately the store oni has size 8 o 10 .. =( So in the end we didnt purchase it .. Time was running out as i need to go back at 5 to go work .. We soon decides that we will go Mid Valley to search for it after my work ..

Went to Mid Valley .. searched in Timberland outlet, Metrojaya and also Garden's Isetan .. couldnt find the right size .. seems to be a shoe that is very hot in da market .. Well,eventhough he didnt say .. i kno he was quite disaapointed though .. If he dont like it,he wouldnt have search it everywhere ..

This Monday morning .. I went to work as usual .. and around afternoon i supposed to drive mummy tooo Great Eastern Mall .. Remembered there has Timberland too .. Was thinking to get him the 'Timberland Shoe Shoe" as a SURPRISE present .. Reach there search inside .. i think the shop close down edi .. and i recalled KLCC has Timberland outlet too .. Time was limited but rushed there too .. At last found the last pair which is the display one .. Was quite upset but then kind hearted sale promoter told me that at Sunway outlet they got 3 pairs .. so i gave him my number n have him reserved the shoe for me .. Later on he called me n he said he reserved the shoe for me edi .. I was so happy dat i finally got the shoe reserved and plan to go there later tonite to purchase it,get it wrap and give him as a surprise present ..

Well,Kenneth told me he might b going to Sunway today depending if he finishes his work early .. OK .. Reserving the shoe is done .. now is time to delay him from going there to get the shoe .. i send a msg to him asking him to onli go Sunway on Thurs giving him an excuses as i wanted to go wid him coz i wanted to buy some stuffs there .. he say okay but at the same time he told me he alreadi reached there and going to see whether the have the shoe o not .. Suddenly i felt .. i really cant describe .. it was like oh shit .. gonna stop him from getting that ..

Got the Sunway outlet num from KLCC .. called straight to that .. ask the person whether is there any guy asking for the same shoe for size 9 o not .. n he said yes .. he say he is thinking to buy the display one as all the size 9 has been reserved. n i asked a question that when i thought back now seem ridiculous .. I asked ' Is it possible if u can make him not to buy the display ones?' .. Well, everyone knows the asnwer is NO .. I jus couldnt find a way to have him stop a customer from buying .. So later on i jus told him .. Well,jus cancel my reservation and give the shoe that ive reserved for him to him ..

I was really disappointed at that time becoz ive plan everything on how to give him n picking up the shoe later on tonite .. but it jus didnt happen .. its jus a split second .. I kno he would b really happy if i gave him this surprise that i feel it is really BEAUTIFUL ..

Later , Kenneth sms me saying that he bought the shoe edi .. And he told me ngam ngam got ppl release the reservation pair .. Well,needless to say the person who release it was me .. But i can feel that he is very very happy after he get to buy the shoe .. Well can say everything is worth it .. from me going places to search for it until he sucessfully purchased the shoe .. It doesnt matter anymore coz he is happy after dat ...

Well dat moment of time is jus like .. when u play mahjong .. n u got this '13 yew' and u waiting to win the game .. suddenly another person win faster then u .. hahaha! and i guess this is a 'Beautiful SURPRISE' for me .. haha