' PAKU ' lesson ..

A story of a Paku lesson ..

Ingredient :
36 pakuS
1 blank paper

Whenever u feel the grundgies feeling , pinch 1 paku in the blank paper .. When the paku finishes .. then u might wanna do it vice versa .. Whenever u feel like to have the grundgies feeling,hold it, be patient and get over it .. do not let it out and settle it wid a calm heart .. Then if u manage to do so , kindly take 1 paku off the same sheet of paper.. Everytime you manage to control it,continue the same thing .. until every paku has been taken out ..

NOW , look at the sheet of paper .. What do you see? Its fills wid 36 holes on it .. It reflects the amount of time that u ve hurt ppl around you whenever u lose ur temper and had the grundgies feeling .. Could u mend it? NO .. Its awares us that whenever we wanna lose our temper .. take a deep breath and think of how many ppl around you that will get hurt jus becoz of your grundgies feeling ...

Something in life , some things we can mend it .. but not if you hurt his/her feelings .. Sometime we can prevent it from happening ..

* grungies feeling : feeling of angry,frustrated, intended to hurt someone in any way (feelings,or etc) ..

Simple exercise , GREAT lesson ..
This is a great lesson that ive learn from a great person .. =)
Hope that it will bring a light to you guys out there too after reading this ..

mY mEmOrAbLe ConVoCAtiOn ..

Its been 3 days after my convo .. Now only had the time to blog as ive been pretty busy lately wid my works and convo .. Thinking back on dat day it was really really a great journey all the way from the first day i step in to Upm .. On the convocation day itself .. i felt everything that ive put in, has paid up and really really worth it .. On that very special day .. my heart had a lot of 'undescribeable' feeling ..

1. Im so proud of myself that ive made it so far and finally graduated with a result that i m so proud of and its a miracle to me ..

*Nevertheless,when im up on the stage . i feel so proud that im the only Chinese that receive the scroll from Pro Canselor for my course which is ' Bahasa Linguistik Melayu '. That point of time i feel so proud of myself ..

So HAPPY and PROUD ..

2. I feel so thankful for my parent that has been there for me and supporting me all they through ups and downs .. Never give up on me ..

* On dat day, i felt that they were really really happy and very proud of me .. This is the very accomplishment that i feel so proud off .. Later in the evening sent them an sms in Mandarin writing ' BABA MAMA , Mei you ni men jiu mei you jin tian de wo ' .. Never forgets my brother too .. He has been a real great brother in my life and helping me through ..

This is my happy family ..

3. I feel so grateful and thankful for my boyfren .. He was there be4 the convocation starts .. to see me before i went in to the hall .. and he helps me handle all my frens call n guide them to UPM ..And he waits and teman by my bro from 1-4pm n went back to Upm to wait for me to be out of the hall .. He has been really supporting to me and help me thru the whole convocation .. He has been really understanding tat day.. Love you always ..

This is my lovely boyfren , Kenneth Lim ..

4. I feel that im so famous surrounding by all the SLR'S camera (Canon,Nikon .. ) .. haha .. I would like to thank Zheng Hao, my bro Jason , and Kuan Ming for taking nice and wonderful picture of me and my family ..

5. Appreciation is a word that i would use to all my frens who came on dat day including Penny,Chia Ying,Shang Hong,Kuan Ming, Chee Hoe, Zheng Hao,Gerard and Keng Yee .. Ur presence makes my convocation even more special .. Been able to spend this special moment wid u guys .. extremely remarkable ..

6.Nevertheless . warm wishes from my buddies and frens who is not able to make it to my convo .. i love you guys ..

Its really been a wonderful Convocation for me .. ItS the end of one important phase in my life and a starting point for a new phase .. I will miss UPM .. and all my frens there .. Definitely will hope one day if given the opportunities that i will visit my beloved Uni and continuing my Masters there ..

Here are some of the memorables photos that ive took ..

A kiss from Mum and Daddy..

A warm pic wid my bro, Jason ..

My High School Classmate (5K2)
From left : Penny , Me , Chia Ying and Shang Hong ..

A nice smile from Zheng Hao ..

My Form 6's mates .. Kuan Ming and Chee Hoe ..All da way from Cameron .. Mr Gerard Richard .. Bestest buddy , Keng Yee ..

My beloved coursemates .. =)

A ~Beautiful Surprise~..... that didnt work out ..

This is how it started .. Went to shopping wid my boyfren yesterday at One U .. its was a great time and great shopping spree session .. We were hunting for clothes and stuff while Kenneth wanted to buy clothes and shoes .. We were searching everywhere for nice shoes and we ended up in Timberland .. He saw a pair of shoe dat he like very much.He wanted a size 9 but unfortunately the store oni has size 8 o 10 .. =( So in the end we didnt purchase it .. Time was running out as i need to go back at 5 to go work .. We soon decides that we will go Mid Valley to search for it after my work ..

Went to Mid Valley .. searched in Timberland outlet, Metrojaya and also Garden's Isetan .. couldnt find the right size .. seems to be a shoe that is very hot in da market .. Well,eventhough he didnt say .. i kno he was quite disaapointed though .. If he dont like it,he wouldnt have search it everywhere ..

This Monday morning .. I went to work as usual .. and around afternoon i supposed to drive mummy tooo Great Eastern Mall .. Remembered there has Timberland too .. Was thinking to get him the 'Timberland Shoe Shoe" as a SURPRISE present .. Reach there search inside .. i think the shop close down edi .. and i recalled KLCC has Timberland outlet too .. Time was limited but rushed there too .. At last found the last pair which is the display one .. Was quite upset but then kind hearted sale promoter told me that at Sunway outlet they got 3 pairs .. so i gave him my number n have him reserved the shoe for me .. Later on he called me n he said he reserved the shoe for me edi .. I was so happy dat i finally got the shoe reserved and plan to go there later tonite to purchase it,get it wrap and give him as a surprise present ..

Well,Kenneth told me he might b going to Sunway today depending if he finishes his work early .. OK .. Reserving the shoe is done .. now is time to delay him from going there to get the shoe .. i send a msg to him asking him to onli go Sunway on Thurs giving him an excuses as i wanted to go wid him coz i wanted to buy some stuffs there .. he say okay but at the same time he told me he alreadi reached there and going to see whether the have the shoe o not .. Suddenly i felt .. i really cant describe .. it was like oh shit .. gonna stop him from getting that ..

Got the Sunway outlet num from KLCC .. called straight to that .. ask the person whether is there any guy asking for the same shoe for size 9 o not .. n he said yes .. he say he is thinking to buy the display one as all the size 9 has been reserved. n i asked a question that when i thought back now seem ridiculous .. I asked ' Is it possible if u can make him not to buy the display ones?' .. Well, everyone knows the asnwer is NO .. I jus couldnt find a way to have him stop a customer from buying .. So later on i jus told him .. Well,jus cancel my reservation and give the shoe that ive reserved for him to him ..

I was really disappointed at that time becoz ive plan everything on how to give him n picking up the shoe later on tonite .. but it jus didnt happen .. its jus a split second .. I kno he would b really happy if i gave him this surprise that i feel it is really BEAUTIFUL ..

Later , Kenneth sms me saying that he bought the shoe edi .. And he told me ngam ngam got ppl release the reservation pair .. Well,needless to say the person who release it was me .. But i can feel that he is very very happy after he get to buy the shoe .. Well can say everything is worth it .. from me going places to search for it until he sucessfully purchased the shoe .. It doesnt matter anymore coz he is happy after dat ...

Well dat moment of time is jus like .. when u play mahjong .. n u got this '13 yew' and u waiting to win the game .. suddenly another person win faster then u .. hahaha! and i guess this is a 'Beautiful SURPRISE' for me .. haha

great supper gathering at Ah Ju ..

its been a long time that ive not been back to Asiawork to be in contribution due to work .. a few months if im not mistaken .. Went back for Cash Team on Guest Event yesterday .. i tot i was the alien over there coz ive not been there for awhile n there lots of upcoming n recent lp's dat ive not known .. well, it feels good to b back there n be in contribution .. definitely learn something out of there too .. Manage to catch up wid a few that ive long never seen them edi .. Cool! =)

After da event went to supper wid friends that i really missed n close to .. its really been awhile ever since i started to work ,, it takes up most of my time .. n im really feel very happy that i get to meet them yesterday .. had a great supper .. great conversation .. definitely enjoy it .. eventhough its jus a simple dinner but it felt special to me .. To be able to see them again and talk talk talk .. =) its really satisfying .. being to kno how r they r doing recently, whut r they up to .. it definitely in a way lift up my mood and motivates me to move fwd .. that whut friends are for to me .. its jus in a very miracle way jus by spending a dinner o supper together ,it made a whole lots difference to me ..

This morning i woke up,i feel so blessed and happy .. In a way im boosted wid energy to make today more fulfilling and of coz wid a happy n loving heart .. a simple supper yet a big difference .. have a great day ahead everyone !! love ya guys .. =)

Online Investment ..

This is something new that ive learnt today .. Early in da morning , there's this gal (Senior Executive *****) *= not sure the post .. hehe.. from Public Bank came to our office n explain to me about share investment using online facilities .. Its very easy actually .. I can buy o sell my shares online .. Old methos is to called up to buy n sell n provide the documents sign everything which used up alot of work .. this one is jus selling n buying online .. COOL!! .. Will learn more about it before start investing in it ..Something very new to me .. =)

steamBOAT in da House ..

Saturday would be a day for everyone relaxing day and going out wid frens o chilling out somewhere .. Last Saturday .. i choose to be at home and we prepare steamboat for dinner .. Steamboat has been one of my favourite food .. =) no idea y i love it very much .. but jus love it loh .. and wid fried wantan too .. =)Mummy having her fried wantan .. n my doggie is hoping dat mummy will give him a bite too .. hehe!
And we had mummy favourite red wine for the steamboat dinner too .. =)

my doggie cant resist the steamboat as well .. its too nice! =) By the way,his name is Niki ..

Clumsy doll playing Volleyball ..

This title is specially dedicated to Keng Yee as he is the one who brought me think of this title that rhymes!! Applause to him .. haha!

SUNDAY .. At last there is the moment for me to play volleyball after ive not been playing for 6 years after my secondary life .. gosh .. i was all this while HOPING that someday i can play .. and guess my dream came true .. HAPPY .. im really really very happy n excited ge loh .. i was thinking hmmm so long never play liao , see how shitty is my skill edi .. haha! but to my surprise it wasnt too bad though .. whut makes me happy is i stil manage to serve!! COOL !! .. definitely enjoyed da game wid my hi skool frens dat ive not seem for quite some while ..

Was playing volleyball non stop for 2 hrs .. sorry lo too addicted to it liao .. lama tak main .. we played at the majlis perbandaran serdang if im not mistaken .. n it is to my surprise its INDOOR court .. i even applied few layers of sunblock be4 goin there tim .. wasted .. hehe

As always there is always a price to pay when for so long i didnt play volleyball n once i play play non stop .. guess whuts my price to pay? my precious hand .. pain until speechless lo .. after playing im enjoying the burning sensation n at some point i tot my hand's saraf putus liao .. that made my bf laugh like crazy jus coz i say dat .. whut the ... arent he suppose to care for me despite laughing like crazy ? cheh!

here is my precious hand kena torture by the volley .. haha! but i do definitely enjoy this volleyball game n looking forward for another great match .. im very da happy ge loh !!

pity my hand ..